Do you speak up or shut up?
Risk the potential confrontation or silent treatment or just suck it up?
There’s pros and cons for both, which do you choose?
If the cost of continually sucking it up wasn’t so high on your neural networks, short term and particularly long term, then sucking it up could be the go.
Ultimately, your manhood and masculinity rest on speaking up
More importantly, in a way that she not only hears you, but listens
She not only listens, but shows due courtesy and respect in her comments back
You have every right to a fair discussion or a fair argument
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